drewski and I and all others don’t have enough info to make well informed and reasonable comments BUT
the OP may need a lawyer who DOES NOT CONTINUE TO WRITE NASTY LETTERS AT 500 BUCKS A POP
get a lawyer who concentrates on
——- make the client write the story out as to facts on the issues before the court. costs the client less for the lawyer to read and ask further questions than do a 1 hour interview back and forth with the client to obtain 6 facts
——- cut the bs and draft. file. and serve the documents for court applications as a letter writing campaign just wastes money something akin to petitions to the federal politicians
also a great lawyer holds back filing and serving or at least serving a second affidavit until the other side has filed their response affidavit
that is being skillful and not tricky, don’t give the other side all your facts until needed
why you ask
the easy button is for the wife’s lawyer and the wife to make up facts or muddy the waters when filing the affidavit in response to the original allegations
it can be and is easy money and fun for the divorce lawyer
and your life is only threatened about once a month but the opposing client or his or her friends
I love court because right or wrong you get an answer
also the wife in this case may say. my lawyer says to give credence to her fake position
we need court time where a judge sits for the whole day listening to both spouses and makes a decision
it is way to COSTLY and lots of DELAYS under the current system which has been broken for decades
my suggestion is pay to get to court not to be a passenger in the taxi cab looking for the address to the court house